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December 20, 2006

It’s easier to deride girls for being superficial and imprudent than to recognize that, online, girls are practicing how to be part of our culture.

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Ten years ago, the popular press was filled with stories of girls’ insecurities about speaking their minds.  Journalists, authors and academics alike regretted the shortage of spaces for girls to safely express their identities, doubts, pleasures and dreams.

Fast forward to 2006, when the Internet has made girls’ self expression more abundant than ever.  Is everyone relieved now? No. They’re frightened, worried, ashamed.  Critics are especially concerned with many girls’ decisions to post seductive pictures of themselves and “air their dirty laundry” online. I am often asked “Isn’t it terrible that girls are doing this? What’s wrong with girls these days?”

It’s easier to deride girls for being superficial and imprudent than to recognize that, online, girls are practicing how to be part of our culture.  Rather than chastising girls’ online expression, we might instead consider how normal it is for them to reproduce the images they see reinforced throughout our culture as desirable.  Why should we expect girls to safeguard their personal and private selves when they are continuously reminded how wonderful it is to be on public display?  Why is it reasonable to treat adolescents, and girls in particular, as commodities to be sold to marketers and advertisers, but to disparage girls’ own experimentations with self-commodification?

I don’t wish to point fingers at our media for poisoning teen girls. Instead, I think it’s important to see girls as active agents who are trying out different ways of being and acting and thinking, as they should be during adolescence.  The Internet provides a space -some would say a comparatively safe one - for this, even if it’s uncomfortable for the rest of us to witness how American culture turns girls into women.


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